We should be judicious about who we allow into our lives. If there are people in your life that are either not additive or actively detracting, you owe it to yourself to weed that garden. Focus on what’s most important to you. Burn those bridges.

You are worth the work involved in identifying your core values. This is the only life you’re going to get, and you owe it to yourself to maximize who you are. And the rest of us are excited to see and experience the real you. You will be more present and authentic for those you care about, and you’ll be building a life that you are both excited about and proud of.

It’s absolutely possible to fall in love with your life, even if it's not exactly where you thought it would be. By making positive changes and avoiding the trap of comparison, you can learn to embrace the present and shape a brighter future.

Curating your life is a deliberate and ongoing process, much like creating a work of art. By defining your values, setting goals, decluttering, and fostering a growth mindset, you can craft a life that aligns with your goals and aspirations. Remember that your life is a constantly evolving exhibition, and you are both the curator and the masterpiece. So, take control of your life, and make it a beautiful reflection of your unique vision and purpose.

We have to say “no” to other activities and thoughts, including some that seem urgent. While we may have different values and priorities, each person contributing their best in the areas that are most meaningful for them feels like a wonderful template for an inclusive, cooperative society.